Last week I returned from Burning Man, an annual festival that attracts over 50,000 people for a week of creative expression.
The blue umbrella dancers.
One of the unique aspects of Burning Man is that there are no vendors and virtually nothing to purchase. Instead the city runs on a gift economy where giving and receiving is the norm. At Center Camp, the central meeting place, one man stood with a bright pink sign that said, “Hugs.” My first thought was skeptical, but in the spirit of participation I accepted his gift.
What a terrific hug this guy gave! My boyfriend, Zev, tried it out, too. We found a spot nearby and over and over watched the beauty of strangers connecting in a moment of shared humanity.
Once home and on my way to work, I noticed a feeling of loneliness. I longed to be like the guy with the sign – more authentic and tender at work. I made it a point to connect with more people before jumping into my duties. Maybe my next step is to offer hugs on my break.
Do you ever feel disconnected from your real self at work? If so, what would it take to be more you?
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Here’s a video where you can see The Free Hugs Campaign in action.
And here’s the website of the gentle soul who started it all.
That’s your note for the month!
Jean Offerer-of-Hugs Franzblau
